Just got hung up with my wife Neetu and got depressed. We were discussing about our daughter's school uniform. Tomorrow is Saturday and I called her to wash her's white dress cause it's white dress day. She said she have already washed it up and have it ironed.
So I was saying to her that the t-shirt shouldn't be pressed cause it's fabric is not iron friendly, only skirt needs to be ironed. Then she replied" Pta h yar itna to" in a harsh tone. This made me feel very bad. And I told I wasn't taunting you or making you feel low about it. I was just letting you know about that. And she said "no..no m bhi bas waise hi kah rhi thi". But all this event made me depressed and and I'm still thinking about after that call. It's been more then hour and still thinking about it.
My wife belonged to a less privileged family and they didn't have modern commodities and other stuff. We have 8 years of age difference, I was born in 1992 and she is from year 2000. We got married once after she completed her schooling after 12th standard. We have been married for 4 year now. We have a huge difference of thoughts and lifestyle.
I'm not writing about all of my married life struggles, you get them all eventually. Let's come to the point, I needed to teach her my ways or you can say some upgraded lifestyle hacks to survive in this AI era or you can say for our better future. But she takes all wrong sometimes and that makes me depressed. It feels like a hollow married life.
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