My daughter's first PTM and I wish that one thing never happened

Finally I attented the first PTM of my daughter's school, Euro Internation School Bhiwadi. My daughter is in M-1 class. They call it montessori 1. First unit test was done before the summer vacation. Now they need to announce the result and discuss overall academic performance of my daughter.

First, I was thinking that there will be a regular day like the bus will come in the morning and also at the dispersal time. Parents are needed to visit the school into the given time slot. But nothing was cleard in school's common whatsapp group of M-1. So I did message to Prerna's class teacher and she told me that there will be holiday for children. The school must clear all the inctructions for new parents as well.

In the morning, we got late due to some personal grooming and all. Then we reached the school at 11am. We entered into the class and exchanged the smiles with the class teacher. For a moment, we didn't speak anything at starting, we just got standup near the table of the class teacher. And the teacher was also just smiling. Then she said please sit down.

The first thing she said about our daughter is that she is good in studies. Then I asked her about her social skills like interactions with other kids and all. She said she is good. She eats her lunhc whole day. That's it, then the teacher gave us a feedback form about school and told her to sit in class anywhere to fill this up.

Prerna's first PTM day

We sat on Prerna's small chairs and put the form on Prerna's desk. While filling the form, Prerna's gave me a little introduction about her class and things like a small bag which was standing in corner for the children who feel sleepy during the classes. Personally I liked Prerna's class so much. It was a smart and well decorative class. Prerna started jumping on the chairs and when her mother told her not to then she started crying. Prerna's teacher was busy with some other parents and she calls Prerna for having a little gift. When the other parents gone, we went to the teacher again and trying to seek any parenting advise. But I think she didn't get me and told me to that all parents do the best parenting. But that's not I was seeking that time. 

Anyways she gave Prerna a Reading Champion tag and her score card. The prerna's teacher clicks a photo of us and we came back home after Prerna's done palying in a ball pool of her school.

The thing is that, I and Neetu got a nasty fight in the morning and I yelled on multiple time on the scooter in front of Prerna during the way to the school. I couldn't control my feelings and anger on the very first PTM day of my daughter. When we back home, I started to think like what the hell is going with me and why can't I have a right partner for myself in my life?..I even couldn't capture any memory of the day due to all these anger and such situations. The photo you're seeing in this post, was taken by the teacher. I couldn't even take any photo or video of my daughter.

The issue behind the fight is a long story, I can't explain it all here. However, I told sorry multiple time to my daughter for being rude and getting angry on her mother. Even I told sorry before entering the school. I'm also in kind of a pressure that my daughter's upbringing must be in happy surrounding, but I can't full fill that.

I ruined my daughter's first mother's day of school by yelling on her mother in front of her

Mothers day didn't went well for my daughter Prerna cause of me. Yes, it was me who ruined it for her. It was here first mother's day since she is attending the school. Everything was going good until she wore the yellow dress which I have bought it for her on her 3rd birthday.

The dress for color stains on the top, so I send some hack video to remove those stains from office and she did but left a sticky blue jelly on the skirt. So the next day when we getting ready her for school I saw the stain and were asking about that to Neetu. She said she tried but it won't go off and I was already pissed on her for something related to potty thing about Prerna. I will share this thing some next time.

So I started rubbing that stain with a wet cloth and slowly slowly it started going off. Then I was getting more angry and having doubt that she was just giving excuses for ignoring that stain or she might didn't noticed that stain. But giving acceptance about forgetting that stain, Instead she was giving excuses that she tried to clean it but it couldn't get cleaned and that triggering my anger so much. I yelled on her in front of Prerna while she was watching the whole situation. The whole thing made my daughter upset and the school bus also arrived early on that day. So without giving her breakfast properly, she had to leave doe the school without having clicked any picture or goodbye kiss or hug. The morning went in full rush and stress.

When she left for school, my day become more stressed and I got stuck in that over-thinking loop never ends. When I come to the office still thinking that once my daughter reaches home back, I'll tell her sorry for the morning on the video call as the first thing then I can feel free to work ahead.

I din't take any picture on my own that day, but got some pictures of her from school. She seems little sad to me. I also asked her that if she was sad or upset in the school, she told me that she was fine.

Prerna is in yellow top and skirt

How Neetu makes me depressed with low maturity level, husband and wife should be from a same age group and standards

Just got hung up with my wife Neetu and got depressed. We were discussing about  our daughter's school uniform. Tomorrow is Saturday and I called her to wash her's white dress cause it's white dress day. She said she have already washed it up and have it ironed.

So I was saying to her that the t-shirt shouldn't be pressed cause it's fabric is not iron friendly, only skirt needs to be ironed. Then she replied" Pta h yar itna to" in a harsh tone. This made me feel very bad. And I told I wasn't taunting you or making you feel low about it. I was just letting you know about that. And she said "no..no m bhi bas waise hi kah rhi thi". But all this event made me depressed and and I'm still thinking about after that call. It's been more then hour and still thinking about it.

My wife belonged to a less privileged family and they didn't have modern commodities and other stuff. We have 8 years of age difference, I was born in 1992 and she is from year 2000. We got married once after she completed her schooling after 12th standard. We have been married for 4 year now. We have a huge difference of thoughts and lifestyle.

I'm not writing about all of my married life struggles, you get them all eventually. Let's come to the point, I needed to teach her my ways or you can say some upgraded lifestyle hacks to survive in this AI era or you can say for our better future. But she takes all wrong sometimes and that makes me depressed. It feels like a hollow married life.

My daughter's first day of school and got right hand fractured, Things we learned about Orthopedic Plaster

Hello Friends, this post should be published before but I'm doing this now. This will be about my daughter Prerna's first day of school. Well, her first school is Aanganbadi of our village where we sent her for few days in March 2026, to understand that how is going to be a school life. There are few kids who already come to the Aanganbadi. She and her mother go to Aanganbadi in morning 11am and come back at around 1pm. They went there for few days. Then we got her admission into Euro International School, Bhiwadi.

Prerna and Neetu at first day of Aanganbadi

Prerna's class at Aanganbadi

At the first day of school on 1st April 2026, we took her to the school and and at the dispersal time I went to the school back to bring her along. Her first day at Euro school was okay, but in the evening when we, I mean me and my daughter went on a walk where she was cycling, she got fall off from the cycle and got arm fractured above right elbow. Initially I was thinking that must be normal and she will get settle after some time. But she didn't and not allowing anyone to touch her elbow. We ran for a ortho doctor in Rewari and got her a plaster. The doctor told me to come after 5 to 6 day to a normal checkup and will do a X-ray test if required.

After 5 days, when we revisit the doctor, he told me to do a X-ray test before proceeding further tests. I was thinking that there is no pain so everything will be normal and fine. After checking the X-ray report, the doc said everything is A okay and no need to cut off this plaster, we'll add an extra POP bandage to make this a Pakaa Plaster.

Prerna with plaster

I got suspicious that at the time of first plaster he didn't told me to upgrade with a pakka plaster after 5 days, Now he just saying that we should do a pakka plaster. I know it's a recommended Ortho practice. But I got suspicious that he's making money for unnecessary treatment. Cause the fracture was just a crack not the bone displacement and I didn't buy that. In that Kachcha plaster there was a layer of POP bandage also below the elbow and which is also providing a firm support as well.

After that day I spend the next two weeks thinking about the plaster and it's supporting bandages. When we visit the doc after 2 weeks, the X-Ray report was okay and everything was fine, and they cut off the plaster. They told us to do some exercises and warm water massage for proper movement. I'm not saying you shouldn't listen to your orthopedic doctor. He know the best, but sometimes we doubt medical treatments leading to scam in India. There are so many news related always come up regularly. So you should also take decisions as per circumstances and by considering situations.

Two days later, Prerna resumes her school and come back in the school bus. It was her first journey in a school bus. And the next day she did go to the school in the bus and come back in the bus.The fracture was happend on 1st April 2026 and now today's 1st May 2026. She attended the school for only 4 days in the April month.

Prerna first time wearing red dress

Prerna first time wearing white dress

Ghar me aaya new member, Prerna ki life ki sabse pahli dost jo use life me ab dubara nhi milengi

Hello guys bahut dino se kuch post nhi kar paya because 5 December ko chote bhai ko baby ho gya tha aur kuch office ke kaamo ki wajah se kuch bhi update nhi Kiya. Bhai ko baby boy hua aur us time m wahi tha jab ye news sabse pahle bahar aayi to jo us time sabke expression different the. Ye h new born baby ki usi din ki photo.

Aisa lag rha tha ki sabne jo ladka karwane ki mehnat ki wo safal ho gyi thi. Mujhe yaad h jab mujhe beti Hui thi to jo log bahar wait kar rhe the wo ek dum se beti ki news sunke mayush se hi gye the. Aisa lag rha tha ki jaise is sadme se bahar aane me inko time lagenga. Staring se hi neetu ka aisa mindset bna diya tha ki tujhe to ladka hi hoga. But jab ladki hui, to bas sab shant, wo welcome sa hi nhi hua. Pta nhi kyu ladka hone pe itna excitement aur ladki hone par mayushi.

Neetu, Vayu (new born's name)  ko god me lekar baithi hui h. Ab baby aur mother ko ek private ward me shift kar diya tha. Aur hmari beti Prerna waha side wale ward ke patient ki beti ke sath khel rhi thi. Wo uske sath itna ghul mil gyi ki jaise uski friend ban gyi thi. Uski botle me se pani peena aur baar baar uske sath corridor ke gate par chadhna.

Ab meri beti prerna 3 dino tak is bachchi ke sath bahut kheli jiska naam "Prisha" tha. Aur jab Prerna badi ho jayengi use yaad bhi nhi rahenga, ki bachpan me kitne aise bachcho ke sath wo kheli hogi jo sirf life me ek baar mile aur dubara nhi milennge.

Neetu ke new Campus walking shoes from amazon, Check actual images and review

Hello guys welcome to my new post. Ye post h Neetu ke new shoes jo hamne amazon se order kiye the, aaj m uska ek dum true review share karunga. Wo shoes Campus ke the, aur about 6 to 7 din pahle hi receive hue h. To m aapko sare point by point review share krta hu, sabse pahle delivery ki baat krte h.

Delivery: Ab amazon wale outer box me pack karke kam hi bhejte h to save environment. Ye thik bhi h, but jab sirf product ko uske hi box me bheja jata h to box ki aisi halat ho jati h jaise aap dekh rhe honge. Mud-tud jata h, aur kabhi kabhi to phat bhi jata h.

Open box product: After opening, product bahut hi achche se wrap the, unpe koi damage nhi tha. Product condition was very good. But jab bhi m shoes ya clothing order krta hu to, to m check krta hu ki kahi se choti si bhi stitching nikli hui to nhi h, it iritiates me. Mujhe proper stitched ek achchi finishing ke sath expectation hoti h. But yha par ek shoes me thodi si stitching nikli hui thi.

 Sole & Comfort: shoes ki sole thodi moti jyada h but comfortable and lightweight h. Agar kisi lady height jyada h to use ye shoes nhi order krne chahiye. Hamne order place krte time ye cheez notice nhi ki thi. Neetu ki height waise hi jyada h, ab wo ise pahanne ke baad wo bahut lambi dikhai deti h. Ha choti height wali ladkiyon ke liye to ye shoes bilkul best h.

Overall Opinion: Shoes bahut hi lightweight aur comfortable h, iske andar ki insole bhi bahut achchi h jo light pink color me h. Style wise and look wise it's a good choice aur winters ke liye bhi bahut achhche h. Agar aap ki height 5feet se kam h ya aas pass h to aap ise order kro ye ek ahcha article h. M niche iske original buy link lga rha hu amazon ka, aap wha se iske baare me aur information or latest pricing check kar sakte ho.

Prerna ka first time mundan kraya 3 saal ke baad, iske balo ko ghana karne ke liye

Hello guys welcome h aapka mere new post par. Ye post meri beti Prerna ke hair cut se related h. Uske na balo ki density kafi kam h, wo 3 saal ki ho chuki h leking ek baar bhi bh uska mundan nhi kraya h abui tak. Hmare ke kya janam ke baal hmare ishat devta shyam baba ko chadhaye jate h, to us time use wahi le jakar thode se uske baal kat ke chadha diye the. Kabhi bhi proper razor se mundan nhi karaya tha.

Ghar me sabhi log bolte the bachche ke bachpan me bahut bar mundan kiya jata h jisse uske baal kafi ghane aa jate h. Lekin maine kabhi bhi is baat pe trust nhi kiya kyoki mujhe lagta tha ki jitni density janam se hoti h baalo ki utni hi rahengi, mundan karane se kuch nhi hota. Neetu bhi mujhe bahut baar bol chuki thi but maine ise har baar ignore kiya.

To 4-5 din pahle mere cousion ki wife ne hame btaya ki iske baal nikal jate h jaise hi ye muthhi me pakdar thoda sa bhi khichti h. To ye last sunday ko hmae pata chal aur usi din hum ise hmare local barber uncle ke pass lekar gye. Ye baar baar bol rhi thi ki papa ganja to nhi karonge aur m kahta tha nhi.

Ye uski mundan krane se pahle ki photos h jisme wo balo ke sath dikh rhi h. Iske baad isko same waise hi ek barber wali chair pe ek phatta lgake baithaya aur wo white kapda bandha jo baal katne se pahle bandhte h. Mujhe bachpan ki yaad aa gyi ki kaise jab hum chote the to yha baal katwate the same uncle ke pass aaj meri beti katwa rhi h pahli baar inhi uncle se. mainse iski aankho ke aange hath lagaya, neetu iske paas khadi hui aur tabhi uncle ne jaldi se razor se iske mundan kar diya. Ye bikul bhi nhi roi. Bas last me jab ise dikh gya ki ise ganja kya ja rha h, to ye rone lag gyi aur uncle ne tab trimmer se bache hum baal kat diye kyoki us time ye ek jagah nhi ruk rhi, ise pakad rakha tha. Jab ghar usse to wo bahut roi aur, bas agle din thik ho gyi aur normally khelna start kar diya.

Ye hamne pahli baar Prerna ka mundan kiya jab wo commplete 3 saal ki ho gyi thi. Uncle ne btaya ki ab roz nahane se pahle mustard oil se malish karna, to iske baalo ki density badh jayengi. Let's see kya hota h. Wish ki dubara jarurat na pade iska mundan krane ki.