I ruined my daughter's first mother's day of school by yelling on her mother in front of her

Mothers day didn't went well for my daughter Prerna cause of me. Yes, it was me who ruined it for her. It was here first mother's day since she is attending the school. Everything was going good until she wore the yellow dress which I have bought it for her on her 3rd birthday.

The dress for color stains on the top, so I send some hack video to remove those stains from office and she did but left a sticky blue jelly on the skirt. So the next day when we getting ready her for school I saw the stain and were asking about that to Neetu. She said she tried but it won't go off and I was already pissed on her for something related to potty thing about Prerna. I will share this thing some next time.

So I started rubbing that stain with a wet cloth and slowly slowly it started going off. Then I was getting more angry and having doubt that she was just giving excuses for ignoring that stain or she might didn't noticed that stain. But giving acceptance about forgetting that stain, Instead she was giving excuses that she tried to clean it but it couldn't get cleaned and that triggering my anger so much. I yelled on her in front of Prerna while she was watching the whole situation. The whole thing made my daughter upset and the school bus also arrived early on that day. So without giving her breakfast properly, she had to leave doe the school without having clicked any picture or goodbye kiss or hug. The morning went in full rush and stress.

When she left for school, my day become more stressed and I got stuck in that over-thinking loop never ends. When I come to the office still thinking that once my daughter reaches home back, I'll tell her sorry for the morning on the video call as the first thing then I can feel free to work ahead.

I din't take any picture on my own that day, but got some pictures of her from school. She seems little sad to me. I also asked her that if she was sad or upset in the school, she told me that she was fine.

Prerna is in yellow top and skirt

How Neetu makes me depressed with low maturity level, husband and wife should be from a same age group and standards

Just got hung up with my wife Neetu and got depressed. We were discussing about  our daughter's school uniform. Tomorrow is Saturday and I called her to wash her's white dress cause it's white dress day. She said she have already washed it up and have it ironed.

So I was saying to her that the t-shirt shouldn't be pressed cause it's fabric is not iron friendly, only skirt needs to be ironed. Then she replied" Pta h yar itna to" in a harsh tone. This made me feel very bad. And I told I wasn't taunting you or making you feel low about it. I was just letting you know about that. And she said "no..no m bhi bas waise hi kah rhi thi". But all this event made me depressed and and I'm still thinking about after that call. It's been more then hour and still thinking about it.

My wife belonged to a less privileged family and they didn't have modern commodities and other stuff. We have 8 years of age difference, I was born in 1992 and she is from year 2000. We got married once after she completed her schooling after 12th standard. We have been married for 4 year now. We have a huge difference of thoughts and lifestyle.

I'm not writing about all of my married life struggles, you get them all eventually. Let's come to the point, I needed to teach her my ways or you can say some upgraded lifestyle hacks to survive in this AI era or you can say for our better future. But she takes all wrong sometimes and that makes me depressed. It feels like a hollow married life.

My daughter's first day of school and got right hand fractured, Things we learned about Orthopedic Plaster

Hello Friends, this post should be published before but I'm doing this now. This will be about my daughter Prerna's first day of school. Well, her first school is Aanganbadi of our village where we sent her for few days in March 2026, to understand that how is going to be a school life. There are few kids who already come to the Aanganbadi. She and her mother go to Aanganbadi in morning 11am and come back at around 1pm. They went there for few days. Then we got her admission into Euro International School, Bhiwadi.

Prerna and Neetu at first day of Aanganbadi

Prerna's class at Aanganbadi

At the first day of school on 1st April 2026, we took her to the school and and at the dispersal time I went to the school back to bring her along. Her first day at Euro school was okay, but in the evening when we, I mean me and my daughter went on a walk where she was cycling, she got fall off from the cycle and got arm fractured above right elbow. Initially I was thinking that must be normal and she will get settle after some time. But she didn't and not allowing anyone to touch her elbow. We ran for a ortho doctor in Rewari and got her a plaster. The doctor told me to come after 5 to 6 day to a normal checkup and will do a X-ray test if required.

After 5 days, when we revisit the doctor, he told me to do a X-ray test before proceeding further tests. I was thinking that there is no pain so everything will be normal and fine. After checking the X-ray report, the doc said everything is A okay and no need to cut off this plaster, we'll add an extra POP bandage to make this a Pakaa Plaster.

Prerna with plaster

I got suspicious that at the time of first plaster he didn't told me to upgrade with a pakka plaster after 5 days, Now he just saying that we should do a pakka plaster. I know it's a recommended Ortho practice. But I got suspicious that he's making money for unnecessary treatment. Cause the fracture was just a crack not the bone displacement and I didn't buy that. In that Kachcha plaster there was a layer of POP bandage also below the elbow and which is also providing a firm support as well.

After that day I spend the next two weeks thinking about the plaster and it's supporting bandages. When we visit the doc after 2 weeks, the X-Ray report was okay and everything was fine, and they cut off the plaster. They told us to do some exercises and warm water massage for proper movement. I'm not saying you shouldn't listen to your orthopedic doctor. He know the best, but sometimes we doubt medical treatments leading to scam in India. There are so many news related always come up regularly. So you should also take decisions as per circumstances and by considering situations.

Two days later, Prerna resumes her school and come back in the school bus. It was her first journey in a school bus. And the next day she did go to the school in the bus and come back in the bus.The fracture was happend on 1st April 2026 and now today's 1st May 2026. She attended the school for only 4 days in the April month.

Prerna first time wearing red dress

Prerna first time wearing white dress